Petal Levels
One Petal -
Questions and some minor actions that you can do without anyone else
Two Petals -
Removing clothing(yours and others), kissing, some touching, etc
Three Petals -
Nakedness, more intimate touching, kissing/licking body parts, masturbation, manual stimulation of others, etc
Four Petals -
Sex of all types(Oral, penetrative, etc), multiple people involved in sex, etc
General Rules
Consent, consent, consent.
Nothing happens without the consent of all participating parties! At any time any player can revoke consent for any or all actions. This is our number one rule for all the games we make and no matter the Petal level in play. If you are uncomfortable with an action assigned to you you can pass without any consequence.
Have a discussion prior to the start of the game.
Discuss what everyone is comfortable with and only include Petal levels and expansions that everyone is OK with.
Remove cards or pieces the group doesn’t want to use
If possible, review the game ahead of time to remove any cards or pieces you and your group don’t want to use. If that isn’t possible, as you play remove them as they come up.
Sober Play
While we understand that a lot of people enjoy to consume things that alter their mental state, this creates situations where consent cannot be given properly. We suggest that unless blanket consent is negotiated ahead of time, that everyone plays sober.
Check-ins/safe words
While this game doesn’t always get into the truly kinky. It is always good to have a system in place to allow people to easily express how they are feeling. We recommend the stop light system.
Red - STOP! Everything must come to a stop. Aftercare should be provided if needed
Yellow - Slow down! Take a step back and breath for a moment. Things are edging into some uncomfy areas.
Green - Everything is OK! Keep playing!