Petal Levels

One Petal -

Questions and some minor actions that you can do without anyone else

Two Petals -

Removing clothing(yours and others), kissing, some touching, etc

Three Petals -

Nakedness, more intimate touching, kissing/licking body parts, masturbation, manual stimulation of others, etc

Four Petals -

Sex of all types(Oral, penetrative, etc), multiple people involved in sex, etc

General Rules

Consent, consent, consent.

Nothing happens without the consent of all participating parties! At any time any player can revoke consent for any or all actions. This is our number one rule for all the games we make and no matter the Petal level in play. If you are uncomfortable with an action assigned to you you can pass without any consequence.

Have a discussion prior to the start of the game.

Discuss what everyone is comfortable with and only include Petal levels and expansions that everyone is OK with.

Remove cards or pieces the group doesn’t want to use

If possible, review the game ahead of time to remove any cards or pieces you and your group don’t want to use. If that isn’t possible, as you play remove them as they come up.

Sober Play

While we understand that a lot of people enjoy to consume things that alter their mental state, this creates situations where consent cannot be given properly. We suggest that unless blanket consent is negotiated ahead of time, that everyone plays sober.

Check-ins/safe words

While this game doesn’t always get into the truly kinky. It is always good to have a system in place to allow people to easily express how they are feeling. We recommend the stop light system.

  • Red - STOP! Everything must come to a stop. Aftercare should be provided if needed

  • Yellow - Slow down! Take a step back and breath for a moment. Things are edging into some uncomfy areas.

  • Green - Everything is OK! Keep playing!